Legal Custody vs. Physical Custody
The following information is not meant to be legal advice. It offers alternatives,
tips and resources for those with no means to hire an attorney.
The word “custody” is confusing to many people. This is partly because, in the State
of California, it is used to refer to a couple of different things. When
you and your child, or children's other parent are no longer together,
it is important to understand the difference between “legal custody” and “physical custody”. This will help you to speak the “lingo” of the court,
and to communicate effectively with the court, with counsel, and with
the other parent.
” refers to decision-making power. In most situations, the parties
joint legal custody
” of the child or children.
Joint legal custody
" means that both parents share the right and responsibility to make
the decisions as they relate to the health, education, and welfare of
a child. When parents share legal custody, it is necessary for them to
work together to make choices about the child’s school, daycare,
extracurricular activities, religious practices, health care, and other
major aspects of caring for the child. Decisions are made after discussion
and planning. Joint legal custody requires some cooperation and willingness
to work together, between the parents.
Occasionally, for whatever reason, one party will have “sole legal custody” over a child or children. The party with
sole legal custody makes all of the decisions in regards the child or children. While he
or she may consult with the other parent, such communication is not required.
Sometimes, one party has
sole legal custody because the other party does not
want to participate in decision-making, or is not
able to participate because of health, mental capacity or incarceration, for example.
In other cases, the judge has found that there are reasons why one party
should not be involved in decision-making.
“Physical custody” refers to having time with the child or children. Most parents
share “joint physical custody” which is any custodial arrangement where each parent is with the
child, or children, more than 30% of the time. Contrary to popular belief, “joint legal custody” is not necessarily the same thing as a “50/50” custody.
Joint legal custody can, for example, be where one parent has the child
35% of the time, and the other has the children 65% of the time.
Sometimes, one parent will have “sole physical custody”. Interchangeable with the term “primary physical custody”, sole physical custody does not necessarily mean that one parent
has the child 100% of the time, and the other parent never sees the child.
It means that one parent has 30% or less of the time with the child. Where
one parent has 30% or less of the time with the child, the parent with
the larger timeshare is called the “custodial parent”. In such a case, a custodial parent has a presumptive right to
move away with the child. However, this does not guarantee that the court will
permit the custodial parent to move away with the child.
Regardless of the title given to the custodial arrangement, parents will
either coordinate between themselves, or if they cannot agree, will have
a court order a schedule for each parent to have parenting time with the
child or children. Sometimes, the schedule will be fluid and will be left
“up to the mutual agreement of the parties”. In other cases,
the schedule will be very strict, setting forth exact dates, times, and
sometimes even locations for the exchange of the child or children.
For example, a custody order might include the following: “Respondent shall have the child from 9:00 a.m. on Friday mornings until
6:00 p.m. on Sunday nights. All custodial exchanges shall occur curbside
at Petitioner’s home”. Still other families choose a schedule somewhere in between, providing
some structure, yet still allowing for flexibility. Many families also
include holidays, special days and vacation scheduling in their orders
as well. The schedule depends on what is in the best interest of the child
or children, and a number of other related factors such as the parents’
work schedules, the children’s schedules and more.